Tell us the discovery that made you want to turn around and leave .

Seeing how your partner lives for the first time can be a bit…jarring. Either you’ll be met with a beautiful, welcoming space, or you might just discover amajorred flag.

So I want to know: What WTF moment did you have when visiting a significant other’s, or maybe even a date’s, home?

It could be that their space seemed normal at first, but upon further inspection, you noticed that they kept a lot of photos of their ex lying around.

Maybe you were met with the dreaded mattress-on-the-floor and some cardboard box nightstands to accompany it.

Maybe you walked into an absolutely filthy home and were stunned. They may have even tried to serve you food on dishes with noticeable residue.

If you’re really unlucky, you may have even discovered that they like to collect weird items (bugs, teeth, used tissues — really anything that transcends the line of “quirky” to “creepy”).

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Tell us the discovery that made you want to turn around and leave.

A cozy living room with bookshelves, a patterned couch, records, and a fireplace

Two people smiling in a close-up selfie

Unmade bed with a grey duvet on a wooden floor

Kitchen sink filled with dirty dishes and utensils

A row of variously shaped and sized teeth set against a textured background