Divorce can be jolly eye - opening , even when you ’re a kid .

Getting divorced can be messy, even more so when there are kids involved.

As someone who grew up with divorced parents, they really set the bar and taught me what a healthy, co-parenting relationship should look like.

If your parents ever got divorced, I want to hear from you! What did you learn about their marriage after they decided to call it quits?

Maybe you discovered how strong they were amid all the heartbreak and adjusting to new routines?

Perhaps you learned how important it is to communicate with your partner no matter what?

Or, maybe you realized sometimes love isn’t always enough to keep two people together for the long haul?

Adam Driver, Azhy Robertson, Scarlett Johansson laying in bed as Scarlett looks in the distance in a scene from "Marriage Story"

Steve Carell and Julianne Moore sit at separate desks in a classroom, looking towards the front with serious expressions in a scene from "Crazy, Stupid, Love."

Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Aniston sit on a couch with neutral expressions in a living room setting at night

Greg Kinnear wearing a tie and collared shirt while talking to Abigail Breslin in a scene from "Little Miss Sunshine"

Julia Roberts and George Clooney in formalwear in an outdoor tropical scene from "Ticket to Paradise"

Jill Scott, Denise Boutte, Richard T. Jones sitting on an airplane in a scene from "Why Did I Get Married?"