Can 2024 in the end be the year we end toxic maleness ?

Millie Bobby Brownrecently left the internet feeling a little disappointed after sherevealed two men icks she hasin aninterviewwithBBC Radio 1.

Speaking to host Ali Plumb, Millie said she gets theickwhen she sees men holding umbrellas — and her most recent is nosebleeds. “This morning I was on a flight with my fiancé (Jake Bongiovi), and he got a nosebleed…and I got the ick,“she said during the interview.

While people did acknowledge Millie’s sense of humor about the topic…

It has been pretty apparent that people aren’t supporting the icks she has.

Most people simply don’t understand them to begin with.

Like, case in point:

Millie also claimed nosebleeds aren’t painful, whichis not accuratefor everyone.

Overall, people just feel ~icky~ that Millie’s icks seemed to promote toxic masculinity.

So, we felt like this would be a good opportunity to ask theBuzzFeed Communityto share their experiences of toxic masculinity. Let’s spread awareness and expose how ridiculous it can be! In aReddit thread about the topic, one man shared that he has been called “gay” for saving a kitty:

Men get made fun of for wearing safety gear:

And also for wearing PURPLE. I can’t.

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Closeup of Millie Bobby Brown

Millie Bobby Brown in a black jacket smiling during an interview, with a caption about her fiancé's fragrance

The image shows three social media comments reacting humorously to an unspecified post

Two comments on a social media post critical of someone endorsing toxic masculinity, with one commenter slightly retracting their statement

Social media comment expressing confusion about men holding umbrellas being strange

Comment thread questioning if staying dry is characteristic of a certain sexuality and a reply mocking the notion

Commenter expresses frustration towards a person who dislikes nosebleeds, emphasizing the need for support during such incidents

Comment on social media about the discomfort of frequent nosebleeds and considering nasal cauterization

Comment discussing satirical expectations of 'real men,' expressing disbelief and disgust

"I've been called 'gay' for rescuing a starving kitten and taking it to the RSPCA"

"Getting made fun of for wearing life safety gear on job sites lmfao."

"My favorite color is purple."