" My parent are wild that they did n’t get a big nuptials for all their friends and family to see . They said that they render me the money for a wedding . My disputation is that I got married and had leftover money . Accurate in my record . "

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" My Word is hook up with Wendy , and the wedding is this summer . She is not close to her own mother for multiple reasons and is crowd hard to have me take in the gap . I am not comfortable with it at all , especially with how severely she is pushing . She has multiple time overstepped boundaries , such as invite herself along , discussing very personal issues , being very touchy , etc .

Due to these issues , we are not closemouthed , and my daughters are not huge fans of her . She ask me this week if I would make the cookie tabular array for the wedding party . It is something the Saint Bride ’s own female parent would do with other female relatives . This is the first clip learn about this custom , and I did some enquiry . I would have to make over a thousand cookies from scratch to feed the wedding guests . I ask my daughters if they wanted to do it , and it was a unassailable no .

I informed her that I could not do it ; it was way too much study , and I did n’t have the time . She told me okay , and I thought that was it .

My boy called me up and told me I was a huge jerking . That Wendy has been shout about it , and I should step up . I am still refusing to do it .

AITA ? "

u / Elegant_Throat_8297 / r / AmItheAsshole

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5.“AITA for accepting money from my parents for my wedding then eloping?”

" My parent gave each of my brothers $ 50,000 when they graduate from college as a down requital on their base . When I graduated , they did not do the same for me . I asked about it , and they said my husband should provide . I was n’t wed . I still lived at home .

Three age later , I met my husband . We date for a yr , and then we fix engaged . My parents were overjoy . When we countersink a particular date , they fall in me a cheque for $ 50,000 to pay for the wedding . WTF ?

I take the cheque , and we run off . We then used the money for a down payment on a house . My husband had a similar amount keep open up , so we are in a good spot with fairness .

My parent are furious that they did n’t get a big wedding for all their friends and kinsfolk to hang .

They said that they gave me the money for a wedding . My contention is that I got wed and had leftover money . exact in my books .

My pal are on their side , so I am here to ask if I ’m in the wrong .

u / Important - Writing889,r / AmItheAsshole

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7.“My ex-partner was willing to end our relationship because of my menstrual cycle. Yesterday, I finalised the purchase of his share of our house.”

" His main event with me was my disposal of wrapped tampons ( carefully wrapped in tissue paper and a plastic bag to lodge him ) in the main lav bin , which is also where our shower is . He found this detestable and refused to compromise , despite my efforts . I even procured a different bin with a secure hat , but his position remained unchanged . He insisted that I use the private bathroom in my room , as he believed matter like menses should be kept far from him .

I always made sure to vary my tampon before bathing or showering , and the principal toilet was more convenient give its location in the family . Why should I disoblige myself by using the half bath in my room ? After all , it is my family ; my boyfriend does n’t contribute to rent .

alas , my boyfriend ’s friend accept his side . His protagonist ’s behavior escalated to verbal ill-usage towards me , with my boyfriend passively allowing it to unfold . He even attempted to persuade him to evict me from my own home . I presented him with an ultimatum : it was either me or his friend , but his commitment lay with his friend , prompting the end of our family relationship . I informed him that I would either betray the planetary house or I will result the house . ineffectual to give the house without my financial contribution , I formally bought him out yesterday , putting an end to this cephalalgia . Now , I am barren to dispose of my tampons as I see primed . "

u / cluelessfoo / radius / TwoXChromosomes

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11.“A boomer threw a tantrum about people working from home so I embarrassed them in front of the team.”

" I work for a real estate development company with about 25 - 30 employee in total . The age of the people I work with range from 23 - 68 . We are expect to be in the authority double a hebdomad on day of our choosing . Most of the employees roll in the hay this arrangement , even the elderly - layer hoi polloi . Some of the older crowd prefer to be in the authority . I have no issues with this as everyone is free to do whatever cultivate best for them .

We have this one employee who is quite old and always has something bitter to say in our dawn meeting . He is n’t a senior - tier employee , but most of us answer to him out of regard for his age . He ’s made some of us hunt down personal errand for him and do additional admin work he does n’t require to do . He ’s just an old bully and always has something negative to say about our generation . One day he was task to do some admin work for our manager and he asked for aid on it . ( I had back - to - back coming together and a boatload of work to do . ) I state him I could n’t aid . He was visibly frustrated with me and told me off to my coach . My manager spoke in my defence as she recognize how busy I was . Still , I was nettle with how he handled that .

The next morning time we had a full team meeting and the subject of working from home come up — obviously , he had a few language about that . He allege that his propagation was harder working and that our generation has become super faineant . That working from place is just an excuse for mass not to work . That our multiplication has it so easy and how mass worked firmly back in the day and did n’t slump at habitation pretending to be doing their job . It was a very clear poking at my team and me . I was frankly so fed up , specially after what happened the Clarence Shepard Day Jr. before . I snapped back with ' Well back in the day people could afford a star sign and support a fellowship off of a single individual ’s income at 25 . '

Some team members started laugh and some looked shocked . directly , others depart chiming in . My coworker added that most the great unwashed could afford to rent a place on their own for less than a third of what it costs now . I then tell ' Most of us are almost 30 and ca n’t even give a car so time / money waste on transportation system makes a huge difference to some of our life . ' For the first time ever , he did n’t know what to say . He just stayed abruptly smooth and attempt to nervously laugh it off . ( The way my coworker and I were speak was very serene . It did n’t occur off as natural or condescend . ) It felt so salutary to watch our managers nod along and concord with us .

Sweet but simple petty revenge . "

u / WarmAge9940 / r / pettyrevenge

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