" Butts . I look at all stooge — boastful butts , narrow butts , flat tail , you name it . All da stub . "

Recently, Reddit userNelrifasked the community, “What do you findattractiveabout others of your own sex?”

Welp, folks didn’t hold anything back and revealed prettyyyyyyy intriguing things that make them feel all hot and bothered (and rightly so).

So, here are some unique things that people find attractive in their own sex:

take note : Not all submissions reflect universal attractive traits multitude find in the same sex activity . Everyone ’s experience is different .

1.“I just moved to a warmer area, and I love that other women don’t give AF about letting their butt cheeks hang out from beneath their shorts. Not even at the gym — just out, going about their day.”

— u / Thirty_Firefighter84

2.“I’m a dude with light blue eyes, a plump booty, and a halfway decent beard, and on other dudes, these are the things I’ve noticed the most. I think because these are the three things I get complimented on the most, I’m attracted to those in the same sex. Idk, man — [sometimes] our mentality is weird.”

— u / mikekova01

3.“I fucking love hairy legs on women (bonus points if she has the hairy toe gene). Fuck it up, ‘hobbit lady!!’ I love you!!!”

— u / JerryGarciasButthole

4.“I’m so jealous of dudes with good beards. I don’t mean long ones or big ones — like, a well-sculpted full beard is so attractive to me. Oscar Isaac’s beard inDuneis a good example.”

— u / RpgBouncer

5.“A guy with a deep, suave voice will always make me question things about myself. Voice is also what I find most attractive about gals.”

— atomic number 92 / YEET_Fenix123

" recondite voices are extremely attractive to me no matter the gender ( bonus stage if they have a Southern accent — they make me palpate so weak ) . "

— uranium / Eeveelover14

Bill Hader on "SNL"

6.“Collarbones — I think it’s so pretty when you can see collarbones (and they wear glitter or something on their skin).”

— atomic number 92 / honeyxdripsx

7.“When a man with a great ass knows how to dress properly to show it off. And I don’t mean tight pants that have his crotch screaming — I mean well-fitting pants, and then there’s a magnificent ass behind it.”

— u / i_Praseru

8.“As a woman, I always find cleavage to be the sexiest part of another woman. Not the top part, but the whole middle of their chest — it just looks so beautiful.”

— u / AshamedClassroom413

9.“I identify as a bisexual man so I might be biased — I tend to lean more toward the opposite sex for general attraction. But, what I find physically attractive in men is a plump ass and their junk. Good junk, regardless of size, just feelsright. The feel of it hard in your hand or other places is just chef’s kiss. A nice ass to grab is just a fantastic bonus.”

— uranium / TheObzfan

10.“✨ Women ✨. Their eyes, smiles, lips, hips, curves — when they smile, when they laugh. Honestly, women just existing in general.”

— u / Gingerpyscho94

11.“Fitness — the ability to do difficult physical tasks with calm control. It requires a lot of dedication and training and results in a hot body. That goes for both sexes — fitness is sexy.”

— u / PettyHoe

" There are so many body type out there , but fitness is always sexy . "

— u / tinker_dinker

Cate Blanchett at the "Film Independent Spirit Awards"

12.“Guys with huge smiles. For some reason, sometimes guys feel like they ‘can’t smile’ (or that when they smile big, it’s not ‘attractive’). But when I see a guy smile real big, my heart melts.”

— u / IndividualDig3954

13.“As a bisexual male, I like seeing guys who look ‘pretty.’ Like, they can ‘look like a woman,’ but they don’t have to look indistinguishable from them. Things like a shaven face, not an overly-masculine physique (though I certainly don’t mind a bit of muscle) with at least some pixie hair length.”

— atomic number 92 / BrowningLoPower

14.“Maybe it’s the egotistical side of me, but I love lips on a woman (full ones, to be exact). I love pretty plump lips and fingers.”

— u / TypeOpostive

15.“I enjoy it when another man exudes the kind of confidence and charm that I’m certain women find attractive as well. Besides it being a good quality in general, it also makes me relax around them (given that I’m fairly certain they can handle themselves emotionally and won’t come looking to have their egos coddled).”

— u / ayyowhatthefuck

16.“Longer hair on most guys is absolutely more attractive than shorter hair (especially with bangs). I’m a straight man, but Leon S. Kennedy fromResident Evilcan get it.”

— u / Sonic10122

17.“Legs (for clarity, I identify as a bi woman). I’mweakfor nicely shaped legs (a bit on the thicker side with both good muscle definition and nice fluff).”

— u / oldpaintunderthenew

18.“A great sense of humor is a huge turn on for me. I love someone who can make me laugh and doesn’t take themselves too seriously.”

— u / CharlynCol

19.“Ever since I got over my insecurities and accepted that other women are just born stunning, I can’t help but notice their unique beauties. But what’s the most attractive is when a woman is content and successful in what she does.”

— u / Next - Transition-525

20.“The messy brown-haired hairstyle. I’m jealous of any guy with messy hair because my hair is always straight and falls the same way, no matter what style I try. 😭”

— u / american_cheese_man

21.“As a man, I mean…a solid six-pack. It doesn’texactlyattract me, but I find it pleasant to look at. It’s inspirational.”

— u / stereospeakers

22.“The way men talk to their significant other. I work remotely (as in 900 miles from home) and overhear a lot of conversations. When men are calm and gentle and supportive versus the accusatory, jealous, and angry ones, mmmmm yes. Very attractive.”

— u / Syntonization1

23.And finally, “Butts. I look at all butts — I don’t know why. Big butts, narrow butts, flat butts, you name it — all da butts.”

— u / Violetsen

Note : Some submissions have been edit out for distance and/or limpidity .

Chris Pine in "Star Trek" (2009)

Oscar Isaac in "Dune"

Ryan Gosling in "Crazy, Stupid, Love"

Saoirse Ronan in "Little Women" (2019)

Usher on MTV

Angelina Jolie in "Lara Croft: Tomb Raider"

Tina Turner on "The Cher Show"

Megan Thee Stallion at the 2021 BET Awards

Tina, Gene, and Louise from "Bob's Burgers"